Conversations with Tinu By Tinuke BH

Anchoring Bias.
Lowest Common Denominators.
How does one end up negotiating to be a Janitor in a Building they ALREADY OWN?

Negotiations are a part of life.
However, it is extremely important to know what should or should not be negotiated with.

What if embracing and immersing ourselves in our Shadows is what is required to move us up to the next level?
What if the "Shadow" is not the enemy...Just another tool in our tool box?

Integrity
Congruence.
Arriving Whole.
Thrive is delicious but do you know what comes next?

What happenes when we make it to the tail end of Trauma?
Wiser.
More Resilient.
More Resourced.
Its Post Traumatic Growth.
We get to say "Hey Gorgeous" to a life of THRIVE.

Sometimes things need to be activated one last time before they can be finally released.
The act of writing, storytelling or any other creative pursuit can be the final step in releasing pent up historical/relational residue.

Have you ever stopped to examine the attachment relationships that exist in your life?
From things to Ideas, Places and People?
Is there a pervading dynamic or pattern?

A thriving version of You, your Business or your community can sometimes stir up unexpected emotions.
People feel abandoned, Left Behind etc...so the question becomes; Are you willing to stand your ground?

The tools that are required for THRIVE are very different from the ones that serve us in "Survival" or "BootStrap" mode.
👉🏽Journal Prompt👈🏽
Is there anything you need to let die in order to welcome in THRIVE?

Making the "right" choice AKA one that is values aligned can make us "Villains" in other people's stories.
Are you willing to take the risk?